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Heidi Klum will be celebrating his Halloween party every year. Each year he also never fail to have the best Halloween costume. Last
year he became the Kali Goddess. The year BEFORE became to the Kinky Robot. This year ........... zombieor skinless some shit. Damn cool!
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year he became the Kali Goddess. The year BEFORE became to the Kinky Robot. This year ........... zombieor skinless some shit. Damn cool!
f you like to watching The Simpsons animation series, you've must be seen the three-eyed fish character.. Do you know the fish like that animation was founded at Argentina?? this is not a joke buddy
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PRODUCT SUMMARY
The good:
As thin as the iPad 2 and even lighter, the Samsung Galaxy
Tab 10.1 is the sexiest Honeycomb tablet we've seen. Also, it
has a 3-megapixel back camera and a 2-megapixel front
camera, and powerful dual speakers.
The bad:
The lack of ports on the tablet will be a problem for some and
the plastic back leaves it feeling less solid than the iPad 2.
Specifications:
Android 3.1, 1 GB, NVidia Tegra 2 1 GHz, IEEE 802.11n, IEEE
802.11b, Bluetooth 2.1 EDR, IEEE 802.11a, IEEE 802.11g, 6.71 in x
0.43 in x 9.69 in, 10.1 in, TFT active matrix, 1.32 lbs
The bottom line:
Sleek, sexy, and light, the Samsung Galaxy Tab 10.1 gets as
close to the iPad 2 as any Android tablet before it.© 2011 CBS
Interactive Inc. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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The good:
As thin as the iPad 2 and even lighter, the Samsung Galaxy
Tab 10.1 is the sexiest Honeycomb tablet we've seen. Also, it
has a 3-megapixel back camera and a 2-megapixel front
camera, and powerful dual speakers.
The bad:
The lack of ports on the tablet will be a problem for some and
the plastic back leaves it feeling less solid than the iPad 2.
Specifications:
Android 3.1, 1 GB, NVidia Tegra 2 1 GHz, IEEE 802.11n, IEEE
802.11b, Bluetooth 2.1 EDR, IEEE 802.11a, IEEE 802.11g, 6.71 in x
0.43 in x 9.69 in, 10.1 in, TFT active matrix, 1.32 lbs
The bottom line:
Sleek, sexy, and light, the Samsung Galaxy Tab 10.1 gets as
close to the iPad 2 as any Android tablet before it.© 2011 CBS
Interactive Inc. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
Are you still remember about the 'Zombie Boy'? a men that having a body like a corpse? Remember the Andrej Pejic, a hot male model fashion for wearing women dress on the stage? Now they working together in the campaign for Auslander brand from Brazil. Confuse yet?
Not Safe For Gender Confuse Folks
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Not Safe For Gender Confuse Folks
The mysterious disappearance of Joseph Schexnider, who vanished in
1984 while reportedly being pursued for alleged car theft,
has been solved. Workers renovating a bank in Abbeville, Louisiana
have found his skeleton walled up in an unused chimney.
It's believed that Joseph Schexnider was trying to hide in the
chimney, and got stuck. He would then have died from a
combination of starvation and dehydration. Not a nice way to go, then.
It's considered highly unlikely that he was attempting to
rob the bank since, for one thing, the chimney wouldn't have been a
very good way in.
Joseph Schexnider isn't the only person to be found in a building's
small spaces recently. Just last month, the body of a missing
Texas woman, Jamie Minor, was found in the ventilation system of a
restaurant. She had apparently crawled in there to try to get
into the building, got stuck and eventually died. There's a lesson to
be learned from these stories, but I can't quite put my finger on
it.
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1984 while reportedly being pursued for alleged car theft,
has been solved. Workers renovating a bank in Abbeville, Louisiana
have found his skeleton walled up in an unused chimney.
It's believed that Joseph Schexnider was trying to hide in the
chimney, and got stuck. He would then have died from a
combination of starvation and dehydration. Not a nice way to go, then.
It's considered highly unlikely that he was attempting to
rob the bank since, for one thing, the chimney wouldn't have been a
very good way in.
Joseph Schexnider isn't the only person to be found in a building's
small spaces recently. Just last month, the body of a missing
Texas woman, Jamie Minor, was found in the ventilation system of a
restaurant. She had apparently crawled in there to try to get
into the building, got stuck and eventually died. There's a lesson to
be learned from these stories, but I can't quite put my finger on
it.
1.First and foremost be authentic . Don ' t be afraid to show your
personality. To stand out,be yourself and do
your best to add
value toyour community . Your followers will be drawn towards an
authentic voice. Soon your business will
grow in the
process.
2.Avoid self-promotion , this will only scare people away. Instead
concentrate on building relationships by actively engaging
in natural conversations.
3.Be approachable , genuine and respectful. Treat others the way you '
d want to be treated.
4.Engage with your followers. Take the time to get to know those who
follow you, learn who they are and what interests
them. Read the stream and respond to anything that you find
interesting, re-tweet, answer questions, acknowledge their
RTs.
This will start to build a community around you and your brand.
5.Be personable . Provide a personal connection by creating a fun and
inviting profile with a nice picture/background.
6.Reach outto those you follow as some of them may have not noticed
you. Let them know you ' re there; get noticed.
This
can be easily accomplished by re-tweeting their awesome content,
adding them to one of your lists or tweeting them
directly.
7.Stay upbeat and positive . No one likes drama, badmouthing or plain
negativity. This doesn ' t mean that you should be
something you are not but with every tweet you have a choice. Be
positive or stay away.
8.Respond to mentions and DMs.Don ' t ignore .
9.Give and you shall receive. RT others as you ' d expect them to RT
your content. Offer help, provide useful information
and
guidance. Be there for your people and they will return the favor when
you are in need.
10.Don ' t be boring . Entertain, be funny, be snarky, be real.
11.Be multidimensional . Don ' t just tweet about marketing only
because you are a marketer. You are so many more things.
Tweet aboutyour hobbies, kids, that funny thing that happened to you
this morning, anything that your followers might
find
interesting. One-dimensional tweets are boring.
12.Follow people and conversations relevant to your niche . This will
help you grow your skills, expertise and your business
network.
13.Grow your community by connecting people with one another. Make
introductions, support and coach others.
14.Talk less,listen more.
15.Get to know your audience, their wants and needs, to understand
where your business needs to grow. Only after you
learn
what is it that people are looking for, you can give it to them.
16.Numbers mean nothing. You are better off having 20 true friends
that 2000 strangers who care nothing for you.
17.Always seek out new people to connect with.
18.Take those online relationships into offline friendships.
19.Never tweet anything you wouldn ' t want your mother or your boss to see.
20.Don ' t spam !
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personality. To stand out,be yourself and do
your best to add
value toyour community . Your followers will be drawn towards an
authentic voice. Soon your business will
grow in the
process.
2.Avoid self-promotion , this will only scare people away. Instead
concentrate on building relationships by actively engaging
in natural conversations.
3.Be approachable , genuine and respectful. Treat others the way you '
d want to be treated.
4.Engage with your followers. Take the time to get to know those who
follow you, learn who they are and what interests
them. Read the stream and respond to anything that you find
interesting, re-tweet, answer questions, acknowledge their
RTs.
This will start to build a community around you and your brand.
5.Be personable . Provide a personal connection by creating a fun and
inviting profile with a nice picture/background.
6.Reach outto those you follow as some of them may have not noticed
you. Let them know you ' re there; get noticed.
This
can be easily accomplished by re-tweeting their awesome content,
adding them to one of your lists or tweeting them
directly.
7.Stay upbeat and positive . No one likes drama, badmouthing or plain
negativity. This doesn ' t mean that you should be
something you are not but with every tweet you have a choice. Be
positive or stay away.
8.Respond to mentions and DMs.Don ' t ignore .
9.Give and you shall receive. RT others as you ' d expect them to RT
your content. Offer help, provide useful information
and
guidance. Be there for your people and they will return the favor when
you are in need.
10.Don ' t be boring . Entertain, be funny, be snarky, be real.
11.Be multidimensional . Don ' t just tweet about marketing only
because you are a marketer. You are so many more things.
Tweet aboutyour hobbies, kids, that funny thing that happened to you
this morning, anything that your followers might
find
interesting. One-dimensional tweets are boring.
12.Follow people and conversations relevant to your niche . This will
help you grow your skills, expertise and your business
network.
13.Grow your community by connecting people with one another. Make
introductions, support and coach others.
14.Talk less,listen more.
15.Get to know your audience, their wants and needs, to understand
where your business needs to grow. Only after you
learn
what is it that people are looking for, you can give it to them.
16.Numbers mean nothing. You are better off having 20 true friends
that 2000 strangers who care nothing for you.
17.Always seek out new people to connect with.
18.Take those online relationships into offline friendships.
19.Never tweet anything you wouldn ' t want your mother or your boss to see.
20.Don ' t spam !
Spring has sprung, and love is in the air ! Whenever the weather
starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we
had a special someone to spend
time with. Sometimes,it can be tricky to find – and get!– that great
guy you ' ve been wishing for. So, here are
my top twenty tips on making a
guy fall in love …
1. Be yourself …
All ofmy tips will give you tricks and ideas, but I mean for them all
to be enhancements of who you really are, not make
you into someone
you
' re not.If you ' re fake, it doesn ' t matter if you get a guy to
fall in love with you, because he won ' t really be in love with
the real you. So, my
first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me.
2. Optimize your appearance …
Whenever I' m trying to be more attractive to someone, I always
optimize. Now, this doesn ' t mean I starve myself to
look thin, buy tons of new
clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make
myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes
my best features,
combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a
spritz of light perfume.
3. Listen, listen, listen …
Guyslove to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively
listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen
more than I talk when
I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics,
news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control
the conversation
about 80% of the time.
4. Laugh a lot …
Guys are drawn togirls with a great sense of humor , and I think humor
always begins with a lot of laughter. So, I always
tried to laugh a lot
and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a guy. If I want a
guy to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh and all
his jokes!
5. Have a great attitude …
Inmy experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No
one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative
person. So, I always try
to look on the bright side of life and be a
" glass half full " person when I ' m trying to catch a hot guy .
People always tend to look my way more
often and gravitate toward me when I ' ve got a smile on my face!
6. Be sweet …
Sometimes, I can be catty … all girls can be. When I ' mwith my
girlfriends, we ' ll gossip or trash some other girl for being
rude or trashy, but that ' s
not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I ' ve learned that
this kind of behavior doesn ' t attract guys. Boys are drawn
to girls who are
sweet and don ' t gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to
yourself around your new guy .
7. Flirt …
Some of my friends usedto think flirting was beneath them, but I ' m
telling you – it works. Guys just love to be showered
with attention and
treated like a king. So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head
back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under
your eyelashes.
Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they
' re tried and true because they actually work!
8. Be different …
Trying to be unique and different is a way I ' ve always tried to
interest guys. I don ' t want him to think that I ' m just like all
the other girls out
there… instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I
don ' t talk about all those same old topics, like
school gossip. Ask him
about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show
him you ' re worldy!
9. Be witty …
As I said before, guys like a girl with a sense of humor. Thebest way
to show you value humor is to laugh at his jokes, but
I always try to
crack a fewjokes myself, too. Guys are drawn to girls with a funny
side, and theres nothing that draws two people closer
than sharing a laugh.
So, I always bust out a few comments or funny one-liners when I'm
trying to draw a guy to me.
10. Initiate physical contact …
Guyslove physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to
develop intimacy. So, when I ' m trying to attract a
guy's attention, I will look
for ways tobring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his
arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him
on the knee playfully
if he says something funny, or I' ll touch his hand while I'm
explaining something.
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starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we
had a special someone to spend
time with. Sometimes,it can be tricky to find – and get!– that great
guy you ' ve been wishing for. So, here are
my top twenty tips on making a
guy fall in love …
1. Be yourself …
All ofmy tips will give you tricks and ideas, but I mean for them all
to be enhancements of who you really are, not make
you into someone
you
' re not.If you ' re fake, it doesn ' t matter if you get a guy to
fall in love with you, because he won ' t really be in love with
the real you. So, my
first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me.
2. Optimize your appearance …
Whenever I' m trying to be more attractive to someone, I always
optimize. Now, this doesn ' t mean I starve myself to
look thin, buy tons of new
clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make
myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes
my best features,
combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a
spritz of light perfume.
3. Listen, listen, listen …
Guyslove to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively
listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen
more than I talk when
I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics,
news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control
the conversation
about 80% of the time.
4. Laugh a lot …
Guys are drawn togirls with a great sense of humor , and I think humor
always begins with a lot of laughter. So, I always
tried to laugh a lot
and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a guy. If I want a
guy to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh and all
his jokes!
5. Have a great attitude …
Inmy experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No
one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative
person. So, I always try
to look on the bright side of life and be a
" glass half full " person when I ' m trying to catch a hot guy .
People always tend to look my way more
often and gravitate toward me when I ' ve got a smile on my face!
6. Be sweet …
Sometimes, I can be catty … all girls can be. When I ' mwith my
girlfriends, we ' ll gossip or trash some other girl for being
rude or trashy, but that ' s
not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I ' ve learned that
this kind of behavior doesn ' t attract guys. Boys are drawn
to girls who are
sweet and don ' t gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to
yourself around your new guy .
7. Flirt …
Some of my friends usedto think flirting was beneath them, but I ' m
telling you – it works. Guys just love to be showered
with attention and
treated like a king. So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head
back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under
your eyelashes.
Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they
' re tried and true because they actually work!
8. Be different …
Trying to be unique and different is a way I ' ve always tried to
interest guys. I don ' t want him to think that I ' m just like all
the other girls out
there… instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I
don ' t talk about all those same old topics, like
school gossip. Ask him
about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show
him you ' re worldy!
9. Be witty …
As I said before, guys like a girl with a sense of humor. Thebest way
to show you value humor is to laugh at his jokes, but
I always try to
crack a fewjokes myself, too. Guys are drawn to girls with a funny
side, and theres nothing that draws two people closer
than sharing a laugh.
So, I always bust out a few comments or funny one-liners when I'm
trying to draw a guy to me.
10. Initiate physical contact …
Guyslove physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to
develop intimacy. So, when I ' m trying to attract a
guy's attention, I will look
for ways tobring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his
arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him
on the knee playfully
if he says something funny, or I' ll touch his hand while I'm
explaining something.
Everyone wants to fall in love. Falling is the fun part. Staying
around after the crash landing can be tricky.
Relationship experts say the key to staying in love is to being
willing to work at it. If this sounds like work, that's
because it is. But everything
good in life takes a bit of work. And if you aren't willing to put in
the work it takes to build a successful relationship, then you
don't deserve it
in the first place.
Staying with the gardening metaphor, communication is the best
fertilizer for your relationship. Taking time to
communicate and listen to your
partneris critical if you want your relationship to thrive. "Couples
expect that they'll get to a place where things are
predictable and stable. But
things will always change, and that's what makes the relationship
exciting and alive," says Piver.
1. Communication
Every dayeach and every one of us changes slightly. In ten years you
will be a completely different person than you are
right now. And that
happens one day at a time. One major pitfall people fall into is
feeling like they don't "know" their spouse anymore. And the
antidote to this is
simple: make time to communicate.
2. Eye Contact
Ifyou're having trouble coming up with things to talk about, simply
take time and hang out in the same room as your
spouse without leaving
to do something else. Maintaining eye contact is another pitfall. Next
time you find yourself on the verge of a communication
breakdown,
simply look into one another's eyes. This nips 90% of the minor
hiccups right in the bud.
3. Action
Thethird major no-no people frequently fall into making is waiting for
the other person to change. If you want a better
relationship, take it
upon yourself to make a change. Just like the Beatles said, "the love
you take is equal to the love you make."
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around after the crash landing can be tricky.
Relationship experts say the key to staying in love is to being
willing to work at it. If this sounds like work, that's
because it is. But everything
good in life takes a bit of work. And if you aren't willing to put in
the work it takes to build a successful relationship, then you
don't deserve it
in the first place.
Staying with the gardening metaphor, communication is the best
fertilizer for your relationship. Taking time to
communicate and listen to your
partneris critical if you want your relationship to thrive. "Couples
expect that they'll get to a place where things are
predictable and stable. But
things will always change, and that's what makes the relationship
exciting and alive," says Piver.
1. Communication
Every dayeach and every one of us changes slightly. In ten years you
will be a completely different person than you are
right now. And that
happens one day at a time. One major pitfall people fall into is
feeling like they don't "know" their spouse anymore. And the
antidote to this is
simple: make time to communicate.
2. Eye Contact
Ifyou're having trouble coming up with things to talk about, simply
take time and hang out in the same room as your
spouse without leaving
to do something else. Maintaining eye contact is another pitfall. Next
time you find yourself on the verge of a communication
breakdown,
simply look into one another's eyes. This nips 90% of the minor
hiccups right in the bud.
3. Action
Thethird major no-no people frequently fall into making is waiting for
the other person to change. If you want a better
relationship, take it
upon yourself to make a change. Just like the Beatles said, "the love
you take is equal to the love you make."
Truthfully, I think this can be better explained by showing you what
NOT to do. Especially if want to make her
fall in love with you.
1. Don't let the situation unnerve you. This could make her think that
you don't have much experience, are emotionally
unstable, or just not the
right guy for her. You don't ever want to let it show that it bothers
you when she plays hard to get. Besides, it's a part of the
game, it's
supposed to be FUN. So, treat it that way.
2. Don't let it makeyou start acting desperate for her attention. If
you do, then no matter how good of a guy you might be,
you are going to
get thrown inthe pool of "losers." You need to realize that acting
desperate for her attention will NEVER make a woman fall
in love with you.
3. Don't let it make you lose confidence in yourself. You should never
let your confidence hinge on the approval of a woman
anyway,. But, also
if you start to lose confidence just because she is playing hard to
get, then you are also going to lose HER attraction.
TO MAKE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE...YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO MAKE HER FEEL
ATTRACTION...
Anything elsejust is not going to cut it. When a woman feels
attraction for YOU as a man, and you know how to handle
any little "test" that
she might throw at you, she will start to fall in love with you.
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NOT to do. Especially if want to make her
fall in love with you.
1. Don't let the situation unnerve you. This could make her think that
you don't have much experience, are emotionally
unstable, or just not the
right guy for her. You don't ever want to let it show that it bothers
you when she plays hard to get. Besides, it's a part of the
game, it's
supposed to be FUN. So, treat it that way.
2. Don't let it makeyou start acting desperate for her attention. If
you do, then no matter how good of a guy you might be,
you are going to
get thrown inthe pool of "losers." You need to realize that acting
desperate for her attention will NEVER make a woman fall
in love with you.
3. Don't let it make you lose confidence in yourself. You should never
let your confidence hinge on the approval of a woman
anyway,. But, also
if you start to lose confidence just because she is playing hard to
get, then you are also going to lose HER attraction.
TO MAKE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE...YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO MAKE HER FEEL
ATTRACTION...
Anything elsejust is not going to cut it. When a woman feels
attraction for YOU as a man, and you know how to handle
any little "test" that
she might throw at you, she will start to fall in love with you.
1.Be true to yourself.There are many lonely people in the world and
for a lot of them,having a partner is a way
to escape the
loneliness.The question is... is this really what I want? The answer
can be yes or no. What works for some
doesn ' t necessarily work for
others. Thething is, if you feel comfortable with someone and they
bring joy to your life, then respect that as a positive.
Suck it in and
take care of it.
2.Talkto your Friends .Confiding in good friends can take a huge
weight off your shoulders and provide you with info/
solutions that
you maynot have thought of.Good friends always look out for their kind
so don't be afraid.If you have people in your life
that you
trust, then trust them and ask for help.If you don't have close
friends to talk to,contact a counselor or even your doctor. Or
you can
lookin the press for up-coming events that may offer opportunities to
meet new people.Be creative, be yourself,get out
more and
experience the joy of meeting people.
3.Be Calm. If you've been in love before and it didn't work out,
chances are that you are pissed off, right!? The solution is
simple but so
manymen fail to see it. The answer is...just let go.Allow the wounds
to heal.Talk to your ex. Try to encourage positive
interchange
without argument. If something is said that you don't like... let it
go! If you can do this it will put your adversary off guard
and you will
always win. Let it go!
4.How's your Love Heart?What sort of person are you? Inspect yourself
from an outsiders point of view.It is a sad fact that
almost
80%of the population that bully people are in denial.They literally
don't believe that they are imposing their values on
another.So,
inspect yourself with an open mind. Be as critical of yourself as you
dare. Look at yourself from a 3
rd
person prospective! Hard I know,
but veryrewarding if you follow the rules.I'm not suggesting for a
minute that you may be a bully in your relationships.
Knowledge is
power so I suggest you read on.
5.How do you get back into the dating game after your break-up?
Hmmm. Aninteresting question.I have experienced the " break-up blues "
just like you and it is painful. This is the way I
deal with it.It
may not be your cup-of-tea but it works for me.
I just STOP dating
for a couple/few months and instead, work on myself. Getting stronger,
fitter,more control, appreciate myself more,
see yourself as valuable.Then, and only then do I go out looking for
passion and intimacy. The really important issue is DON
' T GO OUT
TILL YOUR READY! Sounds simplistic? Just try it and see. Your body and
mind will tell you when you're ready. And when
you are ready.
6.Keep an open Mind
Never comparea new lover with past ones. Each person is unique and
should be appreciated for their individual qualities.
Comparing or
dwelling on old flames will only cause anguish and torment. The best
way to kill a new relationship is to dwell on the past.
7.Make yourself more interesting
Timeto think about re-inventing yourself. Avoid superficial
conversation and activities. By going a little deeper you make
yourself more
interested and more interesting. Your date will soon pick up on this
and only positive outcomes can result.
8.Open your heart and mind to others
Spreadaround your love and concern for others.It is the law of natural
attraction,the more you give,the more you get
back.Think
about friends and family who are lonely or need love in their world.
Many people who are successful in love and life use this
technique
on a daily basis. Try it and you will find that in no time you will
receive back what you put out 10 fold!
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for a lot of them,having a partner is a way
to escape the
loneliness.The question is... is this really what I want? The answer
can be yes or no. What works for some
doesn ' t necessarily work for
others. Thething is, if you feel comfortable with someone and they
bring joy to your life, then respect that as a positive.
Suck it in and
take care of it.
2.Talkto your Friends .Confiding in good friends can take a huge
weight off your shoulders and provide you with info/
solutions that
you maynot have thought of.Good friends always look out for their kind
so don't be afraid.If you have people in your life
that you
trust, then trust them and ask for help.If you don't have close
friends to talk to,contact a counselor or even your doctor. Or
you can
lookin the press for up-coming events that may offer opportunities to
meet new people.Be creative, be yourself,get out
more and
experience the joy of meeting people.
3.Be Calm. If you've been in love before and it didn't work out,
chances are that you are pissed off, right!? The solution is
simple but so
manymen fail to see it. The answer is...just let go.Allow the wounds
to heal.Talk to your ex. Try to encourage positive
interchange
without argument. If something is said that you don't like... let it
go! If you can do this it will put your adversary off guard
and you will
always win. Let it go!
4.How's your Love Heart?What sort of person are you? Inspect yourself
from an outsiders point of view.It is a sad fact that
almost
80%of the population that bully people are in denial.They literally
don't believe that they are imposing their values on
another.So,
inspect yourself with an open mind. Be as critical of yourself as you
dare. Look at yourself from a 3
rd
person prospective! Hard I know,
but veryrewarding if you follow the rules.I'm not suggesting for a
minute that you may be a bully in your relationships.
Knowledge is
power so I suggest you read on.
5.How do you get back into the dating game after your break-up?
Hmmm. Aninteresting question.I have experienced the " break-up blues "
just like you and it is painful. This is the way I
deal with it.It
may not be your cup-of-tea but it works for me.
I just STOP dating
for a couple/few months and instead, work on myself. Getting stronger,
fitter,more control, appreciate myself more,
see yourself as valuable.Then, and only then do I go out looking for
passion and intimacy. The really important issue is DON
' T GO OUT
TILL YOUR READY! Sounds simplistic? Just try it and see. Your body and
mind will tell you when you're ready. And when
you are ready.
6.Keep an open Mind
Never comparea new lover with past ones. Each person is unique and
should be appreciated for their individual qualities.
Comparing or
dwelling on old flames will only cause anguish and torment. The best
way to kill a new relationship is to dwell on the past.
7.Make yourself more interesting
Timeto think about re-inventing yourself. Avoid superficial
conversation and activities. By going a little deeper you make
yourself more
interested and more interesting. Your date will soon pick up on this
and only positive outcomes can result.
8.Open your heart and mind to others
Spreadaround your love and concern for others.It is the law of natural
attraction,the more you give,the more you get
back.Think
about friends and family who are lonely or need love in their world.
Many people who are successful in love and life use this
technique
on a daily basis. Try it and you will find that in no time you will
receive back what you put out 10 fold!
1. Reactivate and Refresh.Did you let your online dating membership
lapse at the end of the year? If so, reactivate
your profile. After
the first of theyear, a whole new dating pool of singles emerged
online. Some are first-timers to JDate®. If you
are already online, refresh
your profile with a new catchy screen name and photo. You
' ll be surprised who may find and like the new " you."
2. Be Proactive.If you have always been pursued instead of being the
pursuer, jump
out of your comfort zone and initiate an email introduction to at
least five singles whose
profiles you have viewed. Take a look at who has hot-listed or viewed
your profile and send
them an email. Remember to make it personal. Canned introductions get
deleted more often
than not. Chances are, they
' ll be flattered to hear from you. Double up on the number of
introductory emails that you sent last month and respond to twice as
many. Singles are more
open to connecting just before Valentine
' s Day.
3. Reach Out and Reconnect.Did you get too busy last year and miss out
on meeting
someone you started to communicate with online? Take a look in your
Inbox and find those
emails you found interesting, but never took the time to meet or
connect. Reach out and send
an email. If their profile is still online, assume they haven
' t met " the one " yet. It may be time
for a new beginning for both of you.
4. Wear Red.It ' s no secret that red is the color of love. If you are
female, wear a red
outfit on your dates in February and don ' t forget the lipstick. If
you are male, find the red tie
in your closet to make a lasting impression.
5. Accept Every Invitation.Pay close attention to your Inbox and those
you received via
snail mail and accept as many social invitations as you can. Even if
you don ' t meet Mr./Ms.
Right, you may end up sitting next to someone who has a friend to
introduce you to. Check
out the February
HurryDate ® events and find a speed dating event and RSVP. Singles who
attend these fun events early in the month are hoping to find a date
to be their Valentine.
6.When in Doubt, Eat Chocolate.Find your favorite chocolatier and
select a truffle or two. Dark chocolate is filled with
antioxidants that
are knownto be healthy for you (in moderation). You may even walk out
of the chocolate shop with a smile on your face
and bump into your
dream date. If you are dating someone you met online, pick up a simple
box of chocolates for Valentine
' s Day. Don ' t go overboard. A card and
some chocolate will make a wonderful impression on someone you recently met.
7. Finally, Cast a Wide Net.Even if their profile photo isn ' t what
you dreamed of, be open to the possibilities. You may make
a new friend
in the process or even find someone who is willing to lend a hand in a
business venture you are starting.
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lapse at the end of the year? If so, reactivate
your profile. After
the first of theyear, a whole new dating pool of singles emerged
online. Some are first-timers to JDate®. If you
are already online, refresh
your profile with a new catchy screen name and photo. You
' ll be surprised who may find and like the new " you."
2. Be Proactive.If you have always been pursued instead of being the
pursuer, jump
out of your comfort zone and initiate an email introduction to at
least five singles whose
profiles you have viewed. Take a look at who has hot-listed or viewed
your profile and send
them an email. Remember to make it personal. Canned introductions get
deleted more often
than not. Chances are, they
' ll be flattered to hear from you. Double up on the number of
introductory emails that you sent last month and respond to twice as
many. Singles are more
open to connecting just before Valentine
' s Day.
3. Reach Out and Reconnect.Did you get too busy last year and miss out
on meeting
someone you started to communicate with online? Take a look in your
Inbox and find those
emails you found interesting, but never took the time to meet or
connect. Reach out and send
an email. If their profile is still online, assume they haven
' t met " the one " yet. It may be time
for a new beginning for both of you.
4. Wear Red.It ' s no secret that red is the color of love. If you are
female, wear a red
outfit on your dates in February and don ' t forget the lipstick. If
you are male, find the red tie
in your closet to make a lasting impression.
5. Accept Every Invitation.Pay close attention to your Inbox and those
you received via
snail mail and accept as many social invitations as you can. Even if
you don ' t meet Mr./Ms.
Right, you may end up sitting next to someone who has a friend to
introduce you to. Check
out the February
HurryDate ® events and find a speed dating event and RSVP. Singles who
attend these fun events early in the month are hoping to find a date
to be their Valentine.
6.When in Doubt, Eat Chocolate.Find your favorite chocolatier and
select a truffle or two. Dark chocolate is filled with
antioxidants that
are knownto be healthy for you (in moderation). You may even walk out
of the chocolate shop with a smile on your face
and bump into your
dream date. If you are dating someone you met online, pick up a simple
box of chocolates for Valentine
' s Day. Don ' t go overboard. A card and
some chocolate will make a wonderful impression on someone you recently met.
7. Finally, Cast a Wide Net.Even if their profile photo isn ' t what
you dreamed of, be open to the possibilities. You may make
a new friend
in the process or even find someone who is willing to lend a hand in a
business venture you are starting.
1. Don ' t feel ashamed about changing your mind:
If you are one ofthose people who care too much about what others
think, you may be concerned that getting
back with your ex
will draw disapproving looks or words from those
close to
you. You may think that they will see you as wishy-washy or weak.If
thesetypes of thoughts haunt your mind, I suggest you take a deep
breath and muster up the courage to ignore those
thoughts.
After all,are those people the ones who are now in an unsatisfactory
relationship or who are spending cold, lonely nights
pining
away for that special someone? NO, that would be YOU!So, since this is
your life and not theirs, push any notions about
pleasing
others out the window and focus on what will make you happy.
2. Focus on your love rather than your problems:
As you start thinking about your past relationship seriously again, it
will be natural that your past issues with that person will
come
to the forefrontof your thoughts. While it is advisable to be aware of
what caused the relationship to go sour in the past, it
will
be
more helpful for you to focus most on the love you feel (or have felt)
for that person. As the
law of attraction
tells us, we manifest
in ourlives what we think about the most passionately and the most
frequently. So, start thinking about any love you still
feel for
that person: you just may find that it will grow even bigger than before.
3. Make sure that the feeling is mutual:
As you become more committed to falling in love again with your ex,do a little
homework
to be sure that the feeling is at least
potentially mutual.Look for any signs that he or she still thinks
about you and wants you back.Of course,when you start
seriously in your efforts to makeit work again, you will want to hedge
your bets that you will be met with a receptive heart
on
the other end!
4. Pay attention to the things you have in common:
Once you contact your ex and start
communicating
with him or her again,be sure to focus primarily on the love you have in
common. And, focus on the things you have in common, as well: the
memories, places you have visited, and interests you
share. It
is these common
bonds that serve the love in our lives the most. Find a way to build a
new life for the two of you around those
things that you both cherish and value and keep your eyes on what will
be, not what was
5. Take it slow and be determined to make it work:
Life not always like a fairytale.Rather,we all face real
challenges,issues and constraints with which we must deal every day.
Your effort to rekindle your love with likely hit some bumps in the
road from time to time.That is okay.Keep at it,and have
confidence
in your heart that it can work again.Visualize it working in your mind
' s eye,and then take the necessary steps to
make it happen in your lives.
Falling back in love with your ex requires the full cooperation of
your heart,mind and body.Focus on what matters to you,
visualize making itwork, and then keep at it until you achieve your
goal. By taking the right steps, you just may be back in
his or
her arms in no time!.
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If you are one ofthose people who care too much about what others
think, you may be concerned that getting
back with your ex
will draw disapproving looks or words from those
close to
you. You may think that they will see you as wishy-washy or weak.If
thesetypes of thoughts haunt your mind, I suggest you take a deep
breath and muster up the courage to ignore those
thoughts.
After all,are those people the ones who are now in an unsatisfactory
relationship or who are spending cold, lonely nights
pining
away for that special someone? NO, that would be YOU!So, since this is
your life and not theirs, push any notions about
pleasing
others out the window and focus on what will make you happy.
2. Focus on your love rather than your problems:
As you start thinking about your past relationship seriously again, it
will be natural that your past issues with that person will
come
to the forefrontof your thoughts. While it is advisable to be aware of
what caused the relationship to go sour in the past, it
will
be
more helpful for you to focus most on the love you feel (or have felt)
for that person. As the
law of attraction
tells us, we manifest
in ourlives what we think about the most passionately and the most
frequently. So, start thinking about any love you still
feel for
that person: you just may find that it will grow even bigger than before.
3. Make sure that the feeling is mutual:
As you become more committed to falling in love again with your ex,do a little
homework
to be sure that the feeling is at least
potentially mutual.Look for any signs that he or she still thinks
about you and wants you back.Of course,when you start
seriously in your efforts to makeit work again, you will want to hedge
your bets that you will be met with a receptive heart
on
the other end!
4. Pay attention to the things you have in common:
Once you contact your ex and start
communicating
with him or her again,be sure to focus primarily on the love you have in
common. And, focus on the things you have in common, as well: the
memories, places you have visited, and interests you
share. It
is these common
bonds that serve the love in our lives the most. Find a way to build a
new life for the two of you around those
things that you both cherish and value and keep your eyes on what will
be, not what was
5. Take it slow and be determined to make it work:
Life not always like a fairytale.Rather,we all face real
challenges,issues and constraints with which we must deal every day.
Your effort to rekindle your love with likely hit some bumps in the
road from time to time.That is okay.Keep at it,and have
confidence
in your heart that it can work again.Visualize it working in your mind
' s eye,and then take the necessary steps to
make it happen in your lives.
Falling back in love with your ex requires the full cooperation of
your heart,mind and body.Focus on what matters to you,
visualize making itwork, and then keep at it until you achieve your
goal. By taking the right steps, you just may be back in
his or
her arms in no time!.